by B. R. GOWANI
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- Olivia Nuzzi: journalist author (pronounced NOOT-see)
- Mark Sanford: former South Carolina governor & ex US Congressperson
- Robert F. Kennedy, Jr.: Secretary of Health and Human Services
- Ryan Lizza: journalist/author and ex-fiance of Nuzzi
Olivia Nuzzi was “infatuated” with Mark Sanford, claims Ryan Lizza
in 2020, the intensity of Nuzzi’s feelings for Sanford were expressed thus:
“If I swallowed every drop of water from the tower above your house, I would still thirst for you.”

in 2024, Nuzzi had a sextual affair with Robert F. Kennedy Jr.
previously, Kennedy had admitted to being a sex-addict
in July 2001, he was jailed for a month in Puerto Rico
for protesting the US navy’s bombing exercises in Vieques
“I’m so content here, I have to say it. There’s no women. I’m happy! Everybody here seems happy. It’s not misogyny. It’s the opposite! I love them too much.”
in other words ….
RFK Jr. was happy to be in jail because he was away from women
so he was restricted from sexual activity
his 2nd wife Mary Richardson Kennedy committed suicide in 2012
as she could no longer handle his lust addiction, and numerous conquests
RFK Jr. wrote in his jail diary
a “three-point plan” for “fixing my greatest defect … my lust demons”
Kennedy kept a record of the many women he was involved with …
it appears Nuzzy met Kennedy once, and,
the rest of the affair was conducted through sexting
RFK Jr. is Secretary of Health and Human Services since Feb 2025
RFK Jr. wrote an amorous undated text to Nuzzi:
“Yr open mouth awaiting my harvest.”
“I mean to squeeze your cheeks to force open your mouth. I’ll hold your nose as you look up at me to encourage you to swallow. ‘Don’t spill a drop.’ I am a river You are my canyon. I mean to flow through you. I mean to subdue and tame you. My Love.”
Nuzzi being in the prime of her life in her early 30s,
and, given her passion, and love, made her the desirous canyon
however,
RFK Jr. is not a river
a couple of drops don’t make a river …
yes, there is a South Asian saying:
tipei tipei sarovar bharAi, i.e., trickling drops make a lake
like the water taps in underdeveloped countries
people use those taps to fill buckets and containers
many times the flow is just a trickle (like trickle down theory)
there are times when those water taps have a sign: out of order
this trickle is going to end very soon too …
be ready with an out of order sign
however, love can be expressed in a thousand other ways
so all the best if the two get together
age is just a number …
as the poet Sahir Ludhianvi said:
meri chAhat rahegi hameshA jawAN / jism Dhalne se jazbAt Dhalte nahiN
maut Ane se bhi pyAr martA nahiN / dam nikalne se armAN nikalte nahiN
my love will always be youthful / though the body declines, emotions don’t
death doesn’t mean love dies / though the breathing stops, desires don’t
Note
Living personal life the way one wants is fine, but RFK Jr. should look at his first cousin Caroline Kennedy‘s daughter Tatiana Schlossberg who has acute myeloid leukemia. She has complained in a New Yorker article about the cuts he’s making in healthcare that will affect so many people, including Schlossberg. He should rethink the cuts that are so critical for so many lives.
B. R. Gowani can be reached at brgowani@hotmail.com