Flirting with God: Religion without belief

by MICHEL HOEBINK

The Netherlands is pioneering a new religious trend—religion without belief—argues Dutch religion scholar Koert van der Velde in the dissertation he’ll defend this week.

“For many people traditional religion has been unmasked by science”, Koert van der Velde says. “Often, however, you see those same people continuing to practice religion in one form or another—such as astrology, reincarnation-therapy, spiritual trainings in the business world, or the singing of the Matthew Passion. When asked, however, those engaging in such practices deny believing in the religious assumptions underpinning them.”

As a journalist specialised in religion, Van der Velde spoke to hundreds of people about their religious experiences. Some said they sensed a divine presence lurking behind coincidences in their life, others had a near-death experience, saw ghost-like appearances or UFOs or felt one with nature at sunset. The wealth of data he gathered convinced him he had uncovered a new phenomenon that had not yet been studied.

In trouble
“People feel a deep-rooted desire for religious experiences”, says van der Velde. “A connection with another world, beyond their normal sense perception, a metaphysical world, gives their life meaning.”

Over the past two centuries, religious man has been in trouble: however much he wants to, he can no longer satisfy his religious needs. The progress of science has disenchanted the world, making it hard to continue believing the teachings of traditional religion. “Take Darwin, for instance, who demonstrated that the world was not created in seven days but developed gradually without the need for divine intervention. In this way, science unmasked basic religious assumptions one after another.”

Promise without a guarantee
As a result of this dilemma, a new form of religion has been emerging, Van der Velde argues: religion without belief. “Many people no longer believe in traditional religious assumptions, but now and then act as if they are true and so have a religious experience.” Van der Velde found numerous examples of this new attitude. He mentions the widow of a Dutch writer, who stated on television that though she does not believe in God, she prays to him since her husband died. And a brochure for reincarnation therapy states: “it works, even if you don’t believe in it.”

The title of Van der Velde’s dissertation, ‘Flirting with God’, takes its cue from the Czech writer Milan Kundera, who defines a flirt as a ‘promise without a guarantee’. You show someone you like him or her without any form of commitment. That is the way many people nowadays deal with religion, van der Velde says. “Don’t we all know someone who can talk endlessly about astrology, explaining the whole world with it? But if you ask him if he really believes it, he’ll say: ‘Of course not, it’s just a hobby.’”

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