by KALYANI SARDESAI
A bit of shopping, much laughter, good food and a whole lot of bonhomie made for a day well-spent when wives of the IT committee members from Pakistan, in Pune as part of the Aman ki Asha initiative, were given a flavour of the city.
“Coming to India as part of the Aman ki Asha initiative is one of the most beautiful experiences of my life. I was here last year as well (in New Delhi) and the love and hospitality showered on us is simply overwhelming,” said Naeema Humayun Bashir, wife of Humayun Bashir, country head, IBM, Pakistan. “One was a little apprehensive before coming here, but you (Indians) are among the finest people. Everywhere we have been, we have been received with warmth and humility,” she added.
The first stop was a private clothing cum accessories boutique in Aundh, where the ladies checked out the styles on offer. “It’s a lovely change to shop here,” said Saima Salman, wife of Salman Akhtar, CEO of the Pakistan-based software company, Techlogix. “The karigari and cuts are different, as is the work on the jewellery. I am also looking forward to going to Mumbai, where my chacha lives. I believe that is also a nice shopping hub.”
Looking through the saris and reams of ethnic fabric, Saima said, “India and Pakistan both have such a rich heritage, be it clothing or our respect for the institution of family, we have our own value system and culture, and that is something we must work hard to preserve. Westernisation is fine in its place, but not at the cost of our own identity.”
For Rubina Naseer Akhtar, wife of Infotech CEO Naseer Akhtar, coming to India was the fulfillment of a long-standing wish. “It has totally lived upto my expectations. The people, the hospitality, the warmth, there is so much in common. We enjoy Hindi movies and music in Pakistan, and while the latest musical hits include ‘Munni Badnaam Hui’ and ‘Sheila Ki Jawaani’ — the older generations love the old Hindi songs of Rafi and Mukesh,” she said.
Watching the Pune traffic — and especially women whizzing by on two-wheelers, kids in tow, was much appreciated. “It is just great to see so many ladies outdoors — working, shopping, running errands,” said Naaeema. Rubina added,”Increasingly, women in Pakistan too are contributing to the workforce in various sectors, and that’s a great thing.”
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(Thanks to Pritam Rohila)