Dear Friends,
It should be amazing festival. I’m teaching and reading. Hope to see you there.
Bushra
The South Asian Women’s Creative Collective presents:
Stranger Love: SAWCC’s 6th Annual Literary Festival
March 6–7, 2009
A two-day series of readings, panel discussions, and writing workshops featuring South Asian writing that explores love between strangers and love that is strange.
This year’s festival, Stranger Love, calls to mind accidental encounters and provocative attractions that defy the boundaries of social expectation. From guerilla movements in Sri Lanka to the suburbs of New Jersey, South Asian women examine journey and memory, war and conflict, and race and sexuality, spanning the genres of poetry, memoir, travelogue, and fiction.
Friday, March 6th, 7pm
Reading and Conversation
Featuring Pulitzer Prize–winning author Jhumpa Lahiri (Unaccustomed Earth, Knopf 2008), with author V.V. Ganeshananthan (Love Marriage, Random House 2008).
Tickets are $15 and must be purchased in advance at http://sawcc.org/events. No door sales.
at Wollman Hall
The New School
65 West 11th Street, 5th Floor
New York, NY
Saturday, March 7th, 10am–5:30pm
Panel Discussions and Writing Workshops
Day-long series of panel discussions with Fawzia Afzal-Khan, Meena Alexander, Abha Dawesar, Farzana Doctor, Minal Hajratwala, S. Mitra Kalita, Pooja Makhijani, Suketu Mehta, Chandra Prasad, Zohra Saed, and Svati Shah. See http://sawcc.org/events for full schedule.
Writing workshops include a poetry workshop with Purvi Shah and fiction writing with Bushra Rehman. See http://sawcc.org/events for sign-up information.
at The New School
6 East 16th Street (at 5th Ave), 9th Floor
New York, NY
Saturday, March 7th, 7pm
Closing Night Reading
From dating on Craigslist to undiscovered family histories, South Asian women share their own writing on the theme of “stranger love,” featuring Fawzia Afzal-Khan, Meena Alexander, Abha Dawesar, Farzana Doctor, Minal Hajratwala, S. Mitra Kalita, Yesha Naik, Amy Paul, Bushra Rehman, Zohra Saed, and Purvi Shah.
at Bar 13
35 East 13th Street
New York, NY
$5 at the door
For full schedule and detailed ticket/venue information, visit http://sawcc.org/events
Questions? Email litfest@sawcc.org
Stranger Love is cosponsored by the New School’s South Asia Forum, the Asian American Writers’ Workshop, and Sholay Productions. This event was funded in part by Poets & Writers, Inc. through public funds from the New York City Department of Cultural Affairs; and by the New York Council for the Humanities.
Here is BUshra Rehman’s website http://www.bushrarehman.com/
Here is a hilarious piece by her on lotas or the containers used in toilets by many people to clean themselves after the daily nature-ritual is done—that is, watering your own garden.
Our Little Secrets
By Bushra Rehman
We were in the kitchen, my mother and I, when she turned to me and said, “Did you know Amreekans keep medicine in the bathroom?”
I waited, not quite sure where she was going with this. She looked at me as if I was slow and then continued, “They keep it in the bathroom, and then they eat it.” There was triumph in her voice when she added, “And they say we’re dirty.”
I was surprised, not by the information, or that my mother had just found this out after living in the United States for 30 years. I was surprised that she, a proud woman who spent most of her time with people in our Pakistani community, had internalized the stereotype that we immigrants, Pakistanis, were considered dirty.
It was this conversation with my mother that I remembered when my sister Sa’dia, a visual artist, and I were discussing ideas for an art installation in the bathroom of the Queens Museum of Art in New York. Sa’dia was writing a proposal for an upcoming show and had just discovered that one of the only places left for an emerging artist like herself to exhibit was the bathroom.
In her last exhibition, “More Milk, Lighter Skin, Better Wife,” at the Gallery ArtsIndia in Manhattan, Sa’dia had created an installation using teacups. Each cup was handmade and branded with comments like: “You’ll look beautiful in gold,” or “First comes marriage then comes love.” They were the kind of remarks made by aunties to young women over tea.
Sa’dia realized, however, that teacups were not going to work in the bathroom. I suggested that instead of teacups, she use lotahs. Sa’dia laughed, thinking I was making another one of my bad jokes, but when I spoke to her again, she had developed the idea into the installation “Lotah Stories.” Both of us had no clue at the time that we were about to discover an underground world.
Hiding From Roommates, Even Lovers
A Hindustani word, lotahs are water containers used to clean yourself after using the toilet. They look like teapots without covers and are made of metal or plastic. With one hand, you pour the water and with the other, you wash yourself clean. Lotahs are commonplace throughout South Asia, and in many Muslim countries they are used for cleansing yourself before prayer. However, once South Asian and Muslim immigrants come to the United States, the pressure to assimilate forces many of us to make the transition from lotah to toilet paper. But there are some South Asians who refuse to cross over. Instead, they find themselves living double lives, using lotahs-in-disguise.
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